From last few months I have been noticing my partner isn't interested in having sex. He is ignoring me and starts giving excuses. It's irritating me but I don't want to look desperate infront of him. Can you please give me medicine to reduce libido? @Sexologist

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Na_Dia asked 387 days ago

From last few months I have been noticing my partner isn't interested in having sex. He is ignoring me and starts giving excuses. It's irritating me but I don't want to look desperate infront of him. Can you please give me medicine to reduce libido? @Sexologist_DrKalps

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Instead of reducing your libido, why don't you treat your partner for his sexual problems? He might have erectile Dysfunction/premature ejaculation/ low Libido etc. Sit and have a open talk with your partner. No blame game, no critics please. Ask him why he doesn't have interest? Is he suffering from any sexual problems? If yes, we can go to Sexologist for treatment. I will be with you. Together we can overcome this. And one more thing, There are no such medicines which confirmly reduces your libido. So stop searching for one. Focus on open communication, try to tell him that you want this. So that he will be ready to take treatment.

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Sex is not for trial and error dear. It's a emotional need of any teenage or above person. You have such feelings when you meet someone special, those feelings will automatically take you to next step whenever it should happen. And about your so called friend, you are not a baby doll to try by him. Those who tell any girl be physical or we will break up are just using them for their physical need. Once they use you, they will throw you out of their life and you will be shattered into pieces. it's not like that,If you do not hurry, you will miss the train! Maybe he is not your man! Keep searching from heart, in coming future you will definitely get your prince. Till then just keep yourself sustained. So Don't hurry!

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Yes, these are some symptoms, but there are possibilities that you might not have any symptoms for some days still you have STI. In some cases symptoms appear after window period just like in HIV infection. Some infection may remain silent and will make trouble to your partner/when you become weak on immunity level, they will start appearing. Women may experience the following symptoms also: Burning or itching in the vagina A discharge or odor from the vagina Pain around the pelvis Bleeding from the vagina that is not normal Pain deep inside during sex Sores, bumps or blisters in the vagina, anus, or mouth Burning and pain with urine or with bowel movements Having to go to the bathroom often warts/skin tags around genitals Some STI can give you cancer also like HPV infection. So never underestimate STI. whenever you have any of these symptoms, always consult with gynec or Sexologist. Get yourself tested If you have multiple partners always use precautions(condom/ female condom).

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