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My partner and I have been struggling with communication issues lately, which often leads to arguments and unresolved conflicts between us. As someone in a committed relationship, I'm looking for advice on improving how we communicate our needs and perspectives to each other in a healthier way. What strategies have worked well for other couples to facilitate open and productive dialogues, even when discussing touchy subjects? @Preetha_Balakrishnan
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if your partner dosent you initiate a dialogue. Talk with a calm and composed mind .. Listen to each other and not just react. Leave your Ego and focus on making the relationship strong Leave the past conflicts behind cos in the process of addressing those you will end up creating new ones... Stop seeking in the relation , think of what you can give.... this will do miracles goodluck
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Yes, i second with on this.. seeking in relationship creates mire conflicts and loneliness rather start giving but it should not drain your energy.. then it is a healthy giving and eventually it will start creating a balance. Cheers!
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Every relationship has a conflict area. when you start with a relationship it is with a concreteness that everything will be right. However as time moves on, what seemed normal is not what is accepted. See you are a person with certain individualities and the same is with your partner. Try and understand what irritates your partner or forces that individual to being incommunicative. Very small issues, mannerisms, body language,talking, dressing sense, food habits etc can trigger this. Dont bein a hurry to make good everything at one go. One: Relationships cannot be taken for granted. It has to be watered and pruned for a healthier growth. 2. Each of us have a seperate time zone within us. So we cannot expect the other to discard his/ her time zone and join yours. It takes time. 3. The love for each other needs to be shown. You being in a committed relationship know what could make your partner happy without you compromising yourself. 4. Be calm when explaining your point of view
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There’s something called as fair fighting rules: basically when you communicate, focus on the issue and not the person. Do not play blame games and criticise that person. there’s a difference between criticising (blaming the person) and expressing a complain (about the issue). The latter is what helps. Secondly, use “I” statements: start sentences with “I feel…”, “I think…”, “I need…”. Also give space to the other person’s words and keep their consent into consideration. For example: “ I feel if you do this, it will make me feel amazing. Let me know what your thoughts are about the same”.
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