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So I was wondering how people get married and then everything from preparations to invites to celebrations to venue booking to gifts and souvenirs so much and much more when two people unite … What happens after that is a reality that bites for many Experiencing marriage is something one must do it’s like that old saying Ye woh ladoo hai jo khaye woh bhi pachtaye and jo naa khaye woh bhi pachtaye.. What are ure thoughts on the above … Are u the sufferer or the one enjoying your marriage . For me after 20 years I can say sufferings come along but the most beautiful thing you get out of marriage is children I love them

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Yes, this safar can sometimes become the english wala suffer. That is why there is a growing need for pre-marital counselling these days. So that the beyond the shopping and dressing and pics the reality is explained to the couple and they know what they are expected to do after marriage and mentally ready for it.

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