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by Sampada Fotedar on Mar 19, 2024

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Welcome to my taboo talking space! 🌸 Hi all! 🙋‍♀️ I am Sampada, A trauma informed psychotherapist and a certified sexuality educator 👩‍🏫. Sex Ed has always been something I am vocal about and I work everyday towards creating a non judgemental and taboo free space for all. So Let’s be vocal together and make this space, a sharam free space for all 🥰

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These days I am getting these urges which doesnt allign with my moral or ethical beliefs. How should I handle them?

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DatingExpert_RiyaSatija

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Hello , So when you feel urges that don’t match your morals , it’s like a battle between what you believe is right and what you want . In psychological terms we also call this as fight between ego and superego of our inner body . Try to think differently about the situation, focusing on what’s important to you , this might help you make choices that feel better in long run .

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intimacycoachsampadafotedar

answered 159 days ago

Hi! It’s actually quite normal to feel this way. This conflict is very common. I urge you to sit with these thoughts and emotions and think: “Are they going to impact my life negatively?”, “What are the pros and cons?” Let me know if you want to connect and discuss this further! -Sampada, Psychotherapist and Intimacy coach

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PsychologistRima_Ghosh

answered 156 days ago

Hi,The problem you are facing it's like conflict between your beliefs and your desires.We can't ignore our Need to introspect about your desires and where is the friction.You can take professional help to deal with the situation.

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