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by Mona Gujral on Sep 15, 2022

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my husband cheated on me with my own sister. now he is asking me to sign a divorce mutually and doesn't wanna give me any dues only promising to child care as my son is disable. we are still under the same roof and he is planning to move out.But every day is a new fight as he is constantly talking shit about me verbally abusing me and my son. it's a lot of verbal violence at home whenever he is at home. I am really worried about my son as he is physically disabled and has autism too plus he is getting seizures due to all the stress. no one's family is getting involved as it was a love marriage. I am really lost and no mental strength left.

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sonii

Family Issuescommented 252 days ago

Try to restart your carrier side by side...don't try to hold him as he is already gone.focus on your self and your child future.Leave him with some decent amount and your mental health is most important then only you can take care of your child....be strong and independent

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MindsetbyMeenal

Life Coachingcommented 255 days ago

hi Talk to your husband and make him realise how his behaviour is impacting your son. You need to talk to your family. his family and try to get them involved ..it's important because of your son's special condition. Lawyer you must approach, and let him know the situation. Lawyer will be the best person who can advise you on your entitlement and help you get that. You try not to react to what your husband says or does.. If he is arguing fighting you remain quiet.. two reasons, it will help you mentally and second it will help you Son! This may not be easy but possible if you try.. Good luck

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RelationshipCoach_DrGujral

Family Issuescommented 261 days ago

This is such a difficult situation that you are in. Talk to your husband that atleast for the sake of the child, do not fight with you. so much stress is not good for anyone involved. see how you can make the process of him shifting out easier, so that he leaves soon. as for the divorce settlement, please get in touch with a good lawyer. I sincerely hope your situation sorts out soon... take care

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