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My mother was never there for me, all she did was leave me at age 1, my bua, and my cousin brother raised me, later when they left home after marriage, my dad took over raising me- which I hate because he is very controlling and always in denial, treats me an object meant to either study or get married 😔. To whom should I wish mother's day?

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Hey there, I can understand that it must be a so difficult for you. but close your eyes and feel the person who has the most important impact on you while growing up. wish that person. Mother is not just who gave you birth, but also the one who raised you, or impacted your growth the most.

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