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Why do women demand alimony after a divorce or separation when men don't? @Nazneen

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The decision to seek alimony (also known as spousal support or maintenance) after a divorce or separation is not exclusive to women, as both men and women have the legal right to request alimony depending on the circumstances of the marriage and individual financial situations. Women are more likely to experience economic dependence on their spouses due to factors such as wage gaps, caregiving responsibilities, and career interruptions. In cases where women have sacrificed their own career advancement for the benefit of the marriage or family, alimony may be sought to help mitigate the financial impact of divorce and facilitate their transition to financial self-sufficiency.

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Alimony is required so that a woman who dedicated her life for a marriage, can live respectfully after divorce in case she is not financially independent. These days there are cases where women are earning more than men, so now men ask for maintenance or alimony.

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I think it's probably so that they are a little financially independent after divorce.

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It's all about law women are given alimony so that they can proceed with their things with ease

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