Empowered Boundary Keepers

Is it really tough as a single woman (separated, divorced, widowed, unmarried) in India? Can you share your experiences, both pleasant or unpleasant? @Zanzanil

How does one balance career aspirations with relationship goals? @Zanzanil

What are the biggest challenges of being in a long distance relationship? @Zanzanil

Hey @Zanzanil Can you guide me on how can I assert my boundaries of privacy with my in laws. I don't wanna disrespect them but at the same time I also want that I have some space of my own !!

it's Aishwarya here.Lately I've been picking up on some potentially abusive vibes from my live-in partner, and it's really starting to mess with my head and safety. I'm just not sure exactly what qualifies as abuse beyond the obvious physical stuff. Like is it abusive if they constantly put me down or try to control what I do? Or if they blow up over little things and make me walk on eggshells? I don't want to overreact, but I also don't want to be naive about emotional manipulation. How do i identify it? @Zanzanil

Hi I am 17 and I am in my first relationship. I have only seen love in movies and I am so excited. however my friends say I am expecting too much. how do I be realistic? @Zanzanil

@Zanzanil Recently started dating and it's been a roller coaster since. Everyone loves my boyfriend as if he's nearly perfect. But I've been spending basically my entire day with him only. And I'm happy when I'm with him. I go to class with him leave with him . In the process I've been feeling too dear hed with my friends. Even my bestfriend who used to share everything with me now doesn't do it. I'm feeling too guilty that I've not been there when she needed me ! What do I do to overcome ??

I've always put others first and now I feel lost about my own desires and goals. How can I start prioritizing myself? @Zanzanil

I've been feeling a bit lost and lonely since I'm far away from my family and friends. It's tough not having those familiar faces around to lean on. How can I overcome feelings of loneliness when I'm far away from my family and friends? @Zanzanil

Hey @Zanzanil Balancing the demands of work and home is getting very difficult day by day and sometimes it feels like no matter how hard I try, I just can't seem to get it all done. And that guilt is overwhelming. What are some ways to deal with the guilt of not being able to fulfill all my responsibilities at home and at work?

Girls do you relate? Watch video till end

Personal boundaries are about knowing yourself. knowing who you are how you deserve to be treated.

we tend to people please and agree to things even it costs us out health. whether mental, emotional or any other form. let's say NO and prioritise our wellness

Change is inevitable. Don't accept the blame of changing. Ask yourself if you expanded by the change or did you allow it to reduce you.

If people can't meet you half way, the you can always choose to meet them half way. There is no shame in withdrawing when the other person is not equally invested in you. So match their investment if they can't match yours.

the conditioning that 'family comes before ourselves' has a major part to contribute to lack of boundaries. because we've just learned to say 'yes' when we want to say 'no'. it starts with the family. and then becomes a habit that spreads out to other relationships as well. prioritising the family is one thing and saying 'yes' when you truly want to say 'no' is a very different thing. do you know the difference?

1 key to personal boundaries is *CLARITY*. of what you want, the more clear you are the stronger the boundary.

lack of person boundaries, not always, but usually involves the fear of loosing. loosing the person, the connection, or the feeling of inadequacy. is the relationship is worth it, if you have to fear loosing it? By setting clear boundaries, we can prioritize our emotional well-being and nurture healthier relationships.

Hello members, how was your festival season? all the social gatherings and adjustments along with the fun. let's share our stories of 1. holding boundaries 2. failed boundaries 3. learned boundaries let this be a journey of growing together.

hey beautiful souls , I am a new friend want to say evry onee oncehelooooooooooooo