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I am Vanita Keswani. Being a CEO in the advertising industry, I have found my soul purpose in healing and transformation of others as my passion area. After 27 years of a love marriage, I took a bold step of moving out of the relationship not only because of negativity, but to fulfil a deeper purpose in my life…. To heal and transform others. I am honored to be an advanced student of world renowned Healer, Dr & Master Zhi Gang Sha, who teaches us - “The purpose of life is to serve.” Women juggle with so much in their lives; I would love to help connect them to their true inner being, their soul, and lead them to inner happiness. I can lead women to bring out their soul potential and heal all aspects of life - physical, mental, emotional, spiritual as well as relationships and finances. Relationships is something that is closer to my heart as I have experienced it myself. Honored to serve ❤️

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How likely are Indian women to agree to a mutual divorce initiated by their husband after a few months of an arranged marriage? @Nazneen

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Is it so difficult for a woman to remarry after a divorce? @DrSapna
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Hi… remarrying after the divorce is difficult because after the first experience and since the age has also matured our expectations are much higher and we usually have a list of what we do not want. To find the right person is the difficulty. If there are children involved the concerns of both the parties increase. It is very important to do a thorough background check for the Cause of his divorce. It is also important to understand oneself be candid about mistakes. We might have made in the first marriage and also be clear Why do we want the second marriage. marriage means compromise adjustment and some sacrifice. No matter how many times you marry. These are the changes , we all need to bring in ourselves. ,. And when we want to take all of these into consideration, the choice of groom becomes limited. Of course there might be some family or community restrictions, but Post families weren’t there divorce daughters to remarry
Because in India eeryone including women consider woman must be arogant so her marriage didn't work. No one considers as it could be a man's fault. We have to start from ourselves. We should go to the root cause of divorce and should try to know reasons and conditions of both partners. When every woman starts doing it, definitely in future this condition can be changed. Also because of past trauma of failed relationship makes a lady hesitant to move ahead. But she should believe that not every man will be of same quality. So first start believing in yourself and move ahead. Just be conscious now when you are choosing next partner.
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Why do most women divorce their husbands once they lose their jobs? @RC_Mayanka
It's not always true. But it's like - their life, their rules. If she loves him deeply and ready to struggle with him in any situation she will become his biggest support. But in past life,if he haven't treated her well, never given any importance to her requirements then how can she consider to be with him forever? Some of the woman can be pretty practical and understand that now he can't bear there expenses. So it's her choice to leave him. Some husband are so erogant ...like रस्सी जल गयी पर बल नहीं गया| They keep treating their partner like slave, then they deserve it. In every relationship, the cause can be different other than just loosing job.
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I feel that they need money to survive better.
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Why does the woman get the house after divorce. I have been seeing all this men in Instagram comments complaining about alimony etc it does seem a bit unfair.... @Nazneen
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I think it happens according to the law. Everything is done fairly
Anonymous6d
I agree. both should get certain amount of it.
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There's so much cases which are not talked about in India. I only heard about how men leave their women for various reasons until I got to know about the stats today. Women actually divorce more men than they do for whatsoever reasons. But why is this happening so often now. Why can't men be a lil sensible about their relationships for one woman atleast?? @Relationshipcoachchitkala
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I think it's very common....the struggles are very common in marriages nowadays from both the sides ...that's why people are separating
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I think women are becoming more independent these days so they don't tend to get oppressed under men like the old times.
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My friend recently got married and only in 2 weeks she decided that her husband can't satisfy her and keep her happy. The thing is she got to know her Husband has a small penis which she didn't liked and is very angry about this. Now I'm thinking is it legally correct to file for divorce if you found that your husband has a small penis? @DrSapna
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This needs to be answered by a professional and a good one for this sake
You need to consult a lawyer who knows about this.
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Lately it seems like more and more of my female friends and family members have been the ones initiating divorce proceedings with their husbands. I can't help but wonder - what's driving this trend of women being the ones asking for divorce more often these days? Is it because we're becoming more financially independent and don't feel stuck in unhappy marriages? Or are we just generally more empowered to prioritize our own needs and happiness? @Relationshipcoachchitkala
I believe divorce are increasing because of expectation from marriges are very high especially in love marriage and after marriage all expectation are just like imagination and the reallity is totally different. relation between husband and wife will be good if in laws not interfere between them.
sometimes in a relationship is a suffocating each other.....because of lots of interference of little things... and make a desigen without asking...
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is anyone lawyer here. I m facing serious issues in my marriage. I want to know my rights.. I m in a very tourcherous situations right now
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hey this is not a professional but you should really exercise your rights. And handle your situation with care as it can get worse
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You must talk to your family and close ones first. Don't worry, there are ways to get help. There are NGO'S who help women
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Why are educated women heading towards divorce more than uneducated women? @Relationshipcoachchitkala
Over ages, women want their man slightly stronger than them to feel at comfort to grow more. All women rather female species are designed for continuous growth.. Self growth in humans. Basic fuel for this growth is appreciation and acceptance. These days is tough to find a partner for a women who she considers better than her. And its difficult for the partner to appreciate and accept the success of the lady. That's the primary reason. Right or Wrong.. What's the right approach.. Thats another big concern to talk about 😊
As you get more intelligent, experienced & achieve a level it becomes very difficult to accept someone lesser than yourself. There are typical expectations which do not match the mindsets, so it is better to avoid than to live through the compromises.
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I know someone, my relative actually. she started living separately from her husband because they had issues going on. They are now separate from 2 years I guess. The thing is I'm thinking why aren't they getting divorced officially. Why to remain connected legally if they have so many problems. I don't understand this idea of them. I'm completely confused. Why do most women not go for divorce and rather just choose to live separately after a failed marriage? @Nazneen
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See...People staying connected is not an issue as long as their problems are not affecting their lives ones. They surely would have their own reasons to do so
There could be many reasons. I feel it’s a personal choice. Maybe some people do it out of hope that things may resolve sooner or later. Some folks do it to avoid the tag of a divorce which unfortunately is a taboo in India. Some people may not want to go through the legal process. Can be tons of reasons
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Why are smart women prone to divorce? @Relationshipcoachchitkala
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Lack of support

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