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Lately it seems like more and more of my female friends and family members have been the ones initiating divorce proceedings with their husbands. I can't help but wonder - what's driving this trend of women being the ones asking for divorce more often these days? Is it because we're becoming more financially independent and don't feel stuck in unhappy marriages? Or are we just generally more empowered to prioritize our own needs and happiness? @Relationshipcoachchitkala

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I feel there is not one but many reasons for it. First is that ofcourse women these days have become more empowered, independent and aware of themselves. Secondly I feel that these even their family members are supporting them which was not the case in earlier times. I feel today's women are also practical in the sense that they know staying in a relationship that isn't working will waste their time and efforts only so might as well get a divorce and find someone better.

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Weight Lossanswered 337 days ago

sometimes in a relationship is a suffocating each other.....because of lots of interference of little things... and make a desigen without asking...

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I believe divorce are increasing because of expectation from marriges are very high especially in love marriage and after marriage all expectation are just like imagination and the reallity is totally different. relation between husband and wife will be good if in laws not interfere between them.

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