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I am a single mother of 2 teenager kids been through a bad relationship after divorce. Is it wrong to think for a partner as I feel too lonely. I am working hard to be happy and keep myself busy but feel lonely and depressed. Sometimes I feel I am losing my confidence

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No. It is not at all wrong If you are thinking of having a partner in your life after all you also need someone who understands and supports you. You never know that by getting a partner in your life your kids would also find a father or a friend in him.

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Its not wrong, but it would be better before you take such a desicion, talk to your kids. Since they are in their teenage your desicions/ or every step of your life will impact there life too. If you wish things to be good between you and your kids too then speak up. Infact they are the only ones in this world whom u will have to explain, (as you hav to be there role model). If they are positive go ahead. Be bold.

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Positive Psychology Interventionsanswered 379 days ago

if you think you need a partner pl go ahead nothing wrong. You don't have feel guilty and it. however don't try to find happiness in the new relationship. happiness is your own creation you can be happy on your own. Similarly depression that you mentioned is your own creation, your own thoughts which are negative make you feel low and depressed. Why dont you first work on your thinking, become positive , happy and then look for a partner... This way you will attract good people in your Life..

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