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my man is unable to do it telling that he has severe leg cramps,me too belongs to an orthodox family, I am not even kissing him, doing oral sex is sin in our scriptures,he is asking me daily,he is my first but I am not his,having a fear to do it,can anyone suggest me how to leave the shy and to mingle with him #netflix

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Open communication with your partner is the key dear. l would suggest discussing the issue in the context of your faith or beliefs, perhaps by exploring different interpretations or perspectives within your religious tradition is essential. Encouraging open communication with your partner, understanding your concerns without pressuring to change your beliefs is crucial. Additionally, I am giving you proof of oral sex thousandsof yearsback-in Konark Temple a stone sculpture of a couple doing it. So our anchesters are also doing it or rather enjoying it freely. It may offer a more nuanced perspective on the topic could be helpful. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize your emotional well-being and autonomy in making decisions about your body. It's a sensitive issue, handle carefully. If you both want to try it at a time, I would suggest you both can try this in 69 position. Try it once, experience it and then decide what you want. After all it's your body, your rule,!👍

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