My name is Komal, and I fear I may be in an abusive relationship. How can I recognize the signs and protect myself? @ShagunKSingh

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Parinita Anand asked 400 days ago

My name is Komal, and I fear I may be in an abusive relationship. How can I recognize the signs and protect myself? @ShagunKSingh_Satvatma

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ManifestwithSejal

・answered 378 days ago

Focus on being in a loving relationship and visualise that rather than thinking about negative and thinking about that you might be in an abusive relationship attract love and positivity in your life shift your mindset from negative to positive

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Rashmibansal_astrovastuexpert

・answered 375 days ago

Komal check also kundali also

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Anonymous

・answered 373 days ago

Komal, recognizing the signs of an abusive relationship is crucial for your well-being. Here are some common red flags: Controlling Behavior: Your partner tries to control who you see, what you do, or where you go. They may monitor your phone, email, or social media accounts. Isolation: They isolate you from friends, family, or support networks, making you dependent on them for validation and companionship. Verbal or Emotional Abuse: They belittle, criticize, or humiliate you, undermining your self-esteem and confidence. They may also manipulate or gaslight you, making you doubt your own perceptions and feelings.Physical Abuse: This includes any form of physical harm or violence, such as hitting, pushing, or restraining you. Financial Abuse: They control your finances, restrict your access to money, or sabotage your career or financial independence. If you recognize any of these signs, it's important to prioritize your safety and well-being.

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Anonymous

・answered 371 days ago

Visualize being in a loving relationship and change your self concept

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My husband has cheated on me. I have also forgiven. He stayed there for a few months now. But now again he avoids me. He is not interested in having sex with me. Neither does it give me any financial or emotional sleep. I don't understand what to do. He told me once that he was not interested in me. Abhi says yes but as always only with excuses. But she had feelings for having an affair. What should I do? But if I leave, if I leave you, I have a child.. I have a daughter.

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