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by ShrutiHaasan on Oct 7, 2022

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So, I was chatting with my friend about falling for my boyfriend after a trip where he was an absolute angel – carrying bags, offering water, the whole gentlemanly package. Now, she raises an eyebrow and says, "But I thought you were a feminist." Hold up! Absolutely, I'm a feminist. I stand for equality and all that jazz. But here's the thing – is appreciating a guy's gentlemanly gestures a betrayal of my feminist beliefs? I believe in equality, appreciate differences, but I don't want them to hinder me. What are your thoughts on this?

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I agree with you. Just because you like his sweet gestures of carrying bags and stuff doesn't mean you don't believe in feminist.

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