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Whenever there is news of divorce especially of couple with children, many suggest not separating as kids are involved in the marriage and they need both parents to grow up?!? Ever wonder, How healthy is it to have parents that are not comfortable being together and raising kids?! Co-parenting is also a very viable option if parents separate amicably. Single parenting is difficult but very much doable rather than raise kids in a toxic environment. Do you agree? #divorced #raisingfuturegenerations #singleparent

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In Indian society,, divorce esp when you are mother is not still accepted. women face lots of issues when they cannot take the abuse (physical/emotional/psychological/financial) and want separation. Her own family will not support her. As a mother, I preferred to raise my daughter alone rather than in an unhealthy atmosphere where mother is neither respected nor treated properly. Growing in such atmosphere will have very negative impact on kids. Girls will either feel it is natural and they can't express any abuse happening to them leading to suffering, or they loose trust on relationships and get diverted from normal growth. Boys will either become copy of abusive nature or loose trust or relationships. Both cases are harmful for individuals and society. If raised by single parent at least they won't be abused and become more responsible.

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