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why are men always vindicated in the divorces? seems unfair that they lose everything while the woman doesn't.... @Nazneen

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Divorce outcomes can vary greatly depending on the circumstances of the marriage, the legal system in place, and individual factors. It's not accurate to say that men are always vindicated or that women always come out ahead in divorces. In many cases, divorce settlements are based on factors such as each spouse's financial situation, contributions to the marriage, and the needs of any children involved. Historically, there has been a perception that men often fare worse in divorce proceedings, particularly when it comes to financial outcomes. However, this perception has been shifting over time as societal attitudes change and legal systems evolve to be more equitable.

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It is not a good to generalise who is bad when the divorce happens. the fault can be with anyone.but yes the society is conditioned in such a way a few years back when women were not working and divorce happens, she has to depend on the man for the maintenance and all...so this notion came in and stayed.

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yes. this is a misconception that men are very happy after the divorce and women have to face everything bad...Surely women have their struggles but so are men

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yes. I agree with you. I think no-one is happy after divorce, neither men nor women. Both suffer

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Hey! hope you are well! The topic of divorce comes with a lot of debate of who's right and who's wrong. It's tough for every individual who has been through a divorce or are having one. In a divorce both the parties lose something or the other. Yes, in our society in many cases women do get a upper hand as many of them are not financially independent. But we can't say this for all the cases.

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