Why am I expected to sacrifice my career for marriage, and how do I assert my independence without being labeled as selfish or rebellious?"

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Jyothi Srinivas asked 206 days ago

Why am I expected to sacrifice my career for marriage, and how do I assert my independence without being labeled as selfish or rebellious?"

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Women are often subject to this discrimination where they have to choose either their career or family. But my view is that why choose one when we can manage both. Just prove them that you can manage both without compromising on wither.

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