A simple shopping trip became a tale of conflicting emotions when a salesperson assumed my clothing size. should be educating them about body diversity or succumbing to societal stereotypes?

by Bhavya Gandhi on Apr 2, 2023

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Hey Lovelies Beauty comes in all sizes and I truly belive so; but often we face harsh criticism for being a certain bodytype; so lets all come together and break the stereo types 😀Join me in building an Inclusive Body Positivity environment ✨️ ☺️ ❤️

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Kavya_r asked 383 days ago

A simple shopping trip became a tale of conflicting emotions when a salesperson assumed my clothing size. should be educating them about body diversity or succumbing to societal stereotypes?

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Na_Dia

・answered 383 days ago

It happens as our society isn't ready to change. Don't feel bad girl

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marwa

・answered 382 days ago

I completely understand. Have been through this. Ppl assume our sizes and shapes just by one look which absolutely makes us uncomfortable. And yes, shopkeepers should be educated on these matters.

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