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You are welcome to ask and express about biases, mindfullness, emotions, barriers to growth. Let's 'coto' to make this a safe space where there are no judgements just conscious deep conversations about growth in all areas of life. Love and warmth, Sheeja Shaju Founder and CEO I Create, Program Leader, Executive Leadership Coach, Co Author

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Hey!! This is Anita from Thiruvananthapuram. Lately my partner is being very disrespectful towards me and sometimes my family. We both are working but he is a senior to me and hence works more to earn more. That's the basis why I'm being looked down upon. Not directly but indirectly in a joke way he always tries to demean me by commenting on the money we make. What should I do ??? Any advice

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whenever there is any discomfort in any relation..there is a missing conversation! if you are experiencing disrespect from your partner it's important to have an open conversation and thrash out any biases he may have knowingly/unknowingly fostered about you. it's important you show how you are experiencing it and that you don't feel respected. such conversations help clear spaces which maybe blind to him and you. be respectful, keep your intentions clear, respect yourself enough to have this conversation

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Teasing in any relationship happens because of many unconscious patterns of the past karma, once we learn about them, release them, we can get over this kind of karma can make a happy living then.. My suggestion would be to go for a past life regression therapy. Shagun K Singh Spiritual Life Coach

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