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How do I deal with my mom when I feel like she is constantly attacking me emotionally? When we argue or fight she constantly says I'm selfish, I don't care, that I don't have a heart/feelings. I say that these hurt my feelings and she dismisses it. #familycounselling

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Seemachaudhary

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In such situations, try staying calm and expressing your feelings calmly. Let her know how her words affect you. Set boundaries and ask for a more respectful conversation. If needed, consider involving a neutral third party or seeking support from friends or professionals. Prioritize your emotional well-being in these interactions.

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Na_Dia

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You need to be calm and handle situations more carefully

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Geetika_Sasan_Bhandari

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These are really tough situations and anything that involves standing up to and talking to parents is always difficult. If you can’t get a third person to intervene, seek professional help for both of you

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