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I am Neeti, a 18 year old girl who lives in a hostel. My family is in Delhi. I talk to them sometime in the day. I am really scared as my college summer break is starting soon and that means that I will have to go visit my family. I mean I'm obviously happy that I am going to meet them. But the thing I'm scared of is that they will find out about my eating habits and my sleeping routine. While I was in my hostel I used to eat a lot of junk and fast food and also sleep till late. When my parents used to ask I just lied thinking that they wouldn't understand. But now they will definitely ask me. What will I answer them ??? How do I handle the fear of my family finding out about my lifestyle choices? How do I handle the fear of my family finding out about my lifestyle choices?
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Eating Disorders・answered 167 days ago
hi I'm Soudamini, giving suggestion that, parents will take care until you became a responsible person which u can manage yourself properly so according to them u just manage yourself and learn whatever they said afterall hostel is not a permanent house
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