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Now a days relationships are disturbed so much due to Sexual problems. Myself Dr Kalpana Erande working as a Sexologist for Females and Infertility specialist. We at Dr Erande's Clinic in Mumbai and Pune help couples to resolve there sexual problems, to be happy and more Fertile. Doing sex is not a work, its one of our daily needs. It not only fulfill your desire, but also keep your hormones active so that you don't need to face fertility issues. So do enjoy sex regularly......for good fertility.Also Remember almost Half of population of world is having Vagina and Clitoris, but how many of them know about orgasm?I will try to introduce you all to this untouched part of your sexual self. Be part of this journey and become Rambha -Urvashi of your own life.

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How should I initiate a conversation about BDSM with my husband if I'm interested in trying it but unsure of his thoughts on the matter?

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Remember, communication is key in any relationship. When both of you in full mood, you can just start with,"चलो, आज कूछ तुफानी करते है|" Then he will ask- how? NOW approach the conversation with empathy, respect & a willingness to listen to your partner's perspective. You don't have to dive into the most intense aspects of BDSM right away. Begin by expressing your curiosity & interest in exploring new things together. Be honest about your desires & fantasies regarding BDSM, but also be prepared to listen to your partner's thoughts and feelings. It's essential to create a safe space for both of you to share openly without judgment. Take small steps & gradually explore BDSM activities together. Consider seeking outside resources such as books, online forums, or workshops to learn more and explore together. You can just start from role playing as a boss & employee. Then something from tying or blindfolding. Take small steps and gradually increase the intensity of dominance & submission

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