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I'm (happily!) sexually active with my boyfriend, and let's just say oral sex is a pretty regular part of our routine. Recently, I came across something about dental dams and... honestly, I wasn't sure if they were just for specific situations or if it's something we should be using every single time. I know they can help prevent the spread of STIs, which is obviously important. But is it overkill to use one every time? Do they, like, decrease the pleasure for him? Please help thanks
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Are you also doing penetrative sex also? Because then you have to use condom also. If you and your partner are involved physically with each other only and don't have multiple partners, then get both of you tested once and make it clear that no one from you are having any STI. Then you can enjoy this as it is without dental dam. But if any one of you are with more than one partner, then it's better to use it every time. Also yearly testing can be done if you want to be sure always. It's always better to take precautions to avoid consequences. Though it's not liked by you, it's better for you.
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・answered 282 days ago
I can understand that it can definitely become a moodkill at times. First and foremost, I think it’s important for you both to take an STI test. STI tests should be taken once every 6 months for people who have had multiple partners and once a year for a “single partner throughout” situation. Is is especially important to use dental dams when engaging in oral sexual activity with new/unfamiliar sexual partners, or if you had engaged in sexual activities with multiple sexual partners before your current partner. If the STI test comes out to be negative for both of you, then I feel it’s okay to let go of the dental dam once in a while. But make sure that you get tested regularly to prevent any surprises.
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Mostly for oral Infections which are caused by intimacy. And it is also a means for hygiene and proceed with the intercourse safely.
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