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My partner recently has been very aversive towards affection?? He wasn’t like this before though. He doesn’t like any kind of touch or is’nt getting intimate as well?? Is there a problem with me? What do I do to make him get back to it??

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you shouldn't be thinking that way dear unless you have hurt him by any means or destroyed his Male ego. If you have hurt him then that's one thing but if it isn't the case then my dear there is not problem with you. Either he is stressed or there is something physical or mental glitch he is having

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