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1 out of 3 women face domestic abuse in India. Are you a victim of domestic violence? Are you confused about what's happening and how you are treated? Are you struggling to speak up and finding the needed help? If this resonates with you or if you know of anyone facing abuse....join this community to know more. I'd really like to know your thoughts, experiences and questions if any!

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one of my friend who recently married and moved to banglore. The day she enter the house she doesn't have a room to stay or a chair to sit. all other family members went to sleep and on that day she was fixing the bed that just brought from IKEA. Thats the first sign, latter own the family members don't allow her to go for work. she got a job offer from a bank with a very good package. And her husband draft one mail to the HR that she is not going to work the bank with this package and the distance. Now she is job less and she just spend her time in his family doing all the works and taking care of in laws. Besides that her in-laws always harras by asking dowry and comparing with others. I still can't belive that people are still expecting dowry and consider daughter in laws as a free maid.

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