by Coach Gujral on Sep 15, 2022
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my husband is a drug addict, he drinks aLot, use to take brown sugar also. due` to this there are a lot of problems. i have a 3 year old child. nowadays we are fighting, he is always drunk. what should I do
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hlw everyone, i have talked to my husband and in laws also. my father in law knows everything but he never interfere between us. last week was very disturbing for me. as i asked divorce from my husband. he was heartbroken and asked for a chance. this time he has consulted a psychiatrist and tdke medicine also. now i am just praying everything be good.
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Hi Neha... First of all, he's an absolute loser and you are a brave lady to even think about your options. Most would have left someone like that to get his sh*t together. There are 2 ways in most situations.... 1. He'll forever be an addict if he isn't showing any motive to give up.... 2. He's trying his best to sober down and be the dad he's supposed to be. The choice is yours. You can stick around and wait or find a way and leave. If you want to give him time, please prepare yourself for a plan B. And keep your child informed. Sounds strange? yes!! But most experts in this area emphasize on having clear communication when children are involved. This way they won't grow up confused and will have at least one parent to trust completely. The way you talk to your child is important though. Something like, Dad's made a terrible choice of food and now he's feeling sick. Let's wait till he gets better. In the meantime let's play. So it's not too overwhelming.
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Hi Neha. Most important thing you need to understand each one experience and life journey is different. Don't go by others stories. You need to talk to your husband when he is sober.. Try to Understand the reason why he is into alcohol and drugs addiction.. Reason I m saying this is because people who have some insecurity or fear or such other emotional issues they tend to get into addiction. Talk toyour family and take their help as well. Take professional help for your husband s addiction.. Meet some pycatrist, do counseling if required. While doing all of the above, pl take care of yourself.. practice meditation listen to positive podcast videos.. talk to your friend whom you trust.. Your mental and physical health is very important if you are healthy you will be able to take care of your son and help your husband too
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・commented 325 days ago
Hi Neha, it is a hard situation that you are going through. Can you talk to your family or friends about this? aIt would be a good idea to consult them and a doctor and send your husband to a rehabilitation centre. The doctor would be able to take a better call about this depending on the level of addiction. I feel this would be necessary as then it can be dealt with otherwise at home and fighting about it will not solve thing. it will be very draining for you, and the child will be affected too. Take care
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