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by nnikittadudannii on Nov 30, 2022

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Hey everyone, I am Nikita Dudani - practicing Psychotherapist and counselor. I specialise in working with children and adolscents and young adults. This group is a safe, warm, empathetic and understanding space where you are welcome to share, ask, and discuss anything related to mental health. Let us speak up, show up, and heal ourselves.

🧠 Mental Health
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I cheated on my boyfriend, but I truly love him, he's not talking with me at all, but I have realised my mistake and I want to make things alright but every one is saying this is impossible , what I feel there might be a single solution to open the door of hope, this makes me more anxious by making me think how worse person I am,I made someone cry and I lost the person who truly loved mei help me find the solution so that I can rebuild the broken relationship

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Hello, I am Nirdeshika, Counselling psychologist. We humans do things with a reason and there must be a reason that you have cheated. Try to reflect on that. I understand it is not easy to get someone back and relationship is build on a the very important foundation called trust once that is broken it is hard to gain it. So if your partner is not talking that is okay. If you have realised your mistake and told your partner about it, give him time to process. Things also depend on what level have you cheated, what was the need, was something missing in the relationship? I would like to connect with you here

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Hi Thank you for reaching out! I am a Psychologist. I can understand how you truly want to rebuild this relationship. It is good to own up to your mistake. First, give yourself some time to figure out what happened because of which you cheated on your boyfriend. Give yourself that time and space to understand yourself. Similarly, give your partner some time and space - don't try to force him. Stay patient, be consistent. Forgive yourself first, then you can ask for your boyfriend's forgiveness. If you would like to talk about this more and find proper solutions, do join my live session and I'd be glad to offer my full support and help you resolve this.

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