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How can I deal with an unreliable partner?? He doesn’t work, is unemployed nor does he help me in household chores. How can I make him understand that life doesn’t work single handedly and I am tired now.

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Holistic Menstrual Careanswered 13 days ago

Hi I am a counselling psychologist, helping people to manage their stress and daily life mental health challenges. I would like to answer your question. Dealing with an unreliable partner can be mentally exhausting. Here are some steps you can take: Express Your Feelings, Set Clear Expectations, Seek Professional Help, Prioritise Self-Care, Evaluate Your Relationship you can connect with me in my live consultation for more details solution

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