I got out of an abusive marriage of 3 years and although it was the toughest decision of my life, not a day goes by when I don’t thank God for the courage he gave me. But there are some people who judge me and talk shit. No matter what I do, they keep saying bad about me and it's frustrating. I wasn't even 23 when I got married. Now that I'm out, I want to rebuild myself but the people around me look upon me as I have done any crime. I want to stay away from negativity but didn't know how? @Zanzanil

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by Maeve on Oct 13, 2023

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Na_Dia asked 346 days ago

I got out of an abusive marriage of 3 years and although it was the toughest decision of my life, not a day goes by when I don’t thank God for the courage he gave me. But there are some people who judge me and talk shit. No matter what I do, they keep saying bad about me and it's frustrating. I wasn't even 23 when I got married. Now that I'm out, I want to rebuild myself but the people around me look upon me as I have done any crime. I want to stay away from negativity but didn't know how? @Zanzanil

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Zanzanil

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sometimes we need to take drastic measures for drastic changes. ask yourself, what can help you cut these negative people out if your life. growth means cutting the people out who don't align to your growth. it's ok not to know the solution. what you want to keep exploring is what will make you feel peace within and do it. the actions leading to peace are always a choice away.

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