Is it normal to hate my younger sister? She is a terrible person who constantly says hurtful things to our family and refuses to help around the house. In fact, she enjoys seeing people upset. Am I justified to cut her off when I move out? #familytherapy

by Geetika Bhandari on Nov 8, 2022

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hina asked 525 days ago

Is it normal to hate my younger sister? She is a terrible person who constantly says hurtful things to our family and refuses to help around the house. In fact, she enjoys seeing people upset. Am I justified to cut her off when I move out? #familytherapy

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aparnaa

・answered 525 days ago

May be such an extreme reaction is not necessary. have you given a thought to why she behaves that way? what can be done to mend the relationship. after all close family is our support system. try speaking to her and see what her concerns are

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Seemachaudhary

・answered 525 days ago

It's understandable to feel upset with your sister's behavior. Consider addressing the issues and communicating your feelings with her. Cutting her off might be extreme; explore options for improving the relationship or setting boundaries before making such decisions.

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Geetika_Sasan_Bhandari

・answered 519 days ago

If you are not able to find a solution through dialogue then take her and yourself to a counsellor. There has to be something that prompts her to behave that way - maybe she’s jealous and feels you’re the more loved one. Who knows?

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