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Ladies, what do you do when you get called out for being authoritative and bossy if you are putting forth rationale arguments?

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I had a long chat with my boss who said people have said, I’m authoritative and stand my ground. He asked me to retrospect and fix this. And I’m thinking what’s wrong with that, why’d they hire someone to think and lead when they want me to do the opposite. Eventually what I realised was that the problem was that I was a she being all this and not a he. If I wasn’t a woman in management they’d actually have listened and not dissed. And they kicked me out of the project I was anchoring and had worked quite a few midnights on.

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