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I have a coworker who is extremely two-faced towards me. Whenever we interact directly, she's overly nice and friendly to my face. But multiple trusted colleagues have mentioned to me that the moment I'm not around, she routinely talks badly about me and bitches about things I've done or said. This duplicitous behavior is really off-putting. I'm worried about creating unnecessary workplace drama if I call her out directly. What's the best way to approach this situation - should I have an upfront discussion or kill her with kindness in hopes she stops the petty gossiping?

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Na_Dia

answered 218 days ago

You must ignore such people. They aren't part of your life. They don't mean anything to you.

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SwastiGenztherapist

answered 218 days ago

See here you have heard different things so there are no direct encounters even if you confront she can deny and you will have cold war, what you can do is have acceptance that person doesn’t belong in any of your close knit and keep it as professional as possible

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theintrovertgirl

answered 218 days ago

I think try talking to her for sometime. if she is rude or something then ignore her

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