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by Nazneen Batliwala on Oct 19, 2023

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There is a male coworker who constantly makes unwanted advances and flirtatious comments towards me. He keeps trying to get me to go to lunch with him, despite me turning him down politely numerous times. I'm starting to feel uncomfortable and want to avoid any one-on-one situations with him. What is the best way for me to firmly shut down his advances without creating an awkward workplace environment?

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aabha_rawattt

Cyber Lawsanswered 77 days ago

I think you should once directly have a conversation with him and tell him not to do this again as its becoming uncomfortable for you. If he still doesnt listen to you ,then you should take further steps. As these small things can lead to much bigger issues in the future

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Na_Dia

Divorceanswered 77 days ago

If you have told him no to do it and he is doing it again, you must complain to higher authorities

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I Would say whatsoever may happen just go and confront him about it, tell him how you feel uncomfortable. If he still continues then you can report it to your HR or some senior.

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