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"I've been curious about exploring my own pleasure, but it feels a bit scary. How can I start the journey of self-exploration in a way that's both pleasurable and safe?

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Do you know Self pleasure is also called as Selfie! Just like selfie shows all good looks of our face, it give you good points to pleasure. You explore your own body with your own hand. & remember You are safest in your own hands. Self pleasure starts from self love. Watch your body in mirror & try to embrace every erogenic part of it - like your lips, breast, naval area, vulva, etc with your figers. When you touch them, think about your fantasies - like role playing and your man is doing it all for you. It will be so stimulating at start. Now you can go for clitoral stimulation. While massaging this tiny pleasure button, you can change pattern, pressure and speed of your handling of clitoris & when you find a combination of it giving you max pleasure, you continue to do it. Even rubbing it's hood/skin over it can give you immense pleasure. You can try to penetrate your own vagina with fingers & afterwards with sex toys also. Explore points of pleasure there. Just don't be harsh

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