by Mona Gujral on Sep 15, 2022
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In a world where validation often comes in the form of likes, comments, and nods of approval, it's natural to crave attention. We post our achievements, share our thoughts, and eagerly await the flood of recognition. However, there's a peculiar dance that happens when the attention finally knocks on our door. It's almost as if, in the midst of our yearning, we've also become adept at evading the spotlight we once so desperately sought. The notifications pile up, but we find ourselves scrolling past them, feigning indifference or even pretending we didn't notice. Why does this happen? I think it's the vulnerability that comes with attention – the exposure of our true selves to the scrutiny of others. In our quest for authenticity, we're learning to derive self-worth from within rather than relying on external affirmations. How do you navigate this delicate balance?
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True. We seek attention coz we forget that our thoughts and mind is in our control. I am sharing this thought, I might get a like or not but does that really affect me? This feeling is in my control. I am the owner of my mind. It will think or overthink the way I want. People will say it's easy to say but not easy to implement but i say we already follow it but don't realise it. Do you shout in public? Now do you shout at your place? Now who tells the mind to control that emotion? You got the answer
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Everybody wants praise of other people as well on their own achievements. It's human ig.
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hey guys, i seriously think it's not validation what we are looking for but sharing on social platforms does impact your skills, it helps in where you are going wrong, i feel newer generation parents are less bothered about their kids performances, due to somewhere newer generation always craves for direction and they start sharing on social platforms and if they get noticed by society then they feel satisfied and eventually it becomes addiction so does is love and affection, you cannot live without that right, so I personally feel this is why everyone is into social platforms 😂
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