by Zanzanil Patel on Jun 22, 2023
345 members
370 posts
Welcome to the Empowered Boundary Keepers community on Coto! We're here to support each other in setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in our lives and relationships. Share your experiences, seek advice, and find resources to empower yourself in creating a balanced and fulfilling life. Join us in fostering respect, empathy, and personal growth. Together, we can cultivate strong boundaries and authentic connections.
it's Aishwarya here.Lately I've been picking up on some potentially abusive vibes from my live-in partner, and it's really starting to mess with my head and safety. I'm just not sure exactly what qualifies as abuse beyond the obvious physical stuff. Like is it abusive if they constantly put me down or try to control what I do? Or if they blow up over little things and make me walk on eggshells? I don't want to overreact, but I also don't want to be naive about emotional manipulation. How do i identify it? @Zanzanil
2
1
Answer
A
244d
・answered 244 days ago
So abuse is not just physical it can also be emotional or psychological. Whatever you have stated above is abuse and you should definitely not stay with him anymore. You should have left him by now. He has no right to abuse you. If you want then you can file a case on him.
0
Comment
244d
・answered 244 days ago
abuse is when they want you to be okay with something they won't be, if they were the receiver. abuse is when the damage they cause is more than the love they give what you have mentioned is definitely emotional and mental abuse. not being able to see this clearly or giving them benefit of doubt is because of the trauma bonding.
0
Comment
Trending Creators
9
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
S
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
B
Mental Health
Eating Disorders
J
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
Load more
Trending Communities
Domestic Abuse
Workplace & employment
Women's Rights
Domestic Abuse
Workplace & employment
Women's Rights
Domestic Abuse
Workplace & employment
L
Domestic Abuse
Load more
More Questions Like This
Top discussionIs being harsh and being always silent despite of having ur wife around a mood??
Top discussionmy husband and me fighting from last month when it will going to solve he is saying will stay with basic conversation only
Popular opinionHey guys. I've always been in a toxic household and wanted to leave just as soon as I can. I couldn't go out for my studies as they didn't allow me but now when I'm in a stable and loving relationship I'm thinking of getting into a live in. Now the thing is my parents aren't allowing it and my boyfriend is pestering me. What do I do now.???
Popular opinionWhat does one do if the husband cheats on you
Top discussionMy husband has cheated on me. I have also forgiven. He stayed there for a few months now. But now again he avoids me. He is not interested in having sex with me. Neither does it give me any financial or emotional sleep. I don't understand what to do. He told me once that he was not interested in me. Abhi says yes but as always only with excuses. But she had feelings for having an affair. What should I do? But if I leave, if I leave you, I have a child.. I have a daughter.
Popular opinionMy husband cheated on me. I have 2 options 1. Threaten him and get him to stay 2. Leave him coz he has found his love. Pls advise
Popular opinionMy cuzn got divorced 3 months back. His wife was emotionally abusive and manipulative. Somehow she isolated him from everybody including family. The internet talks so much about narcissistic men but let me tell you, women too can have narcissistic personality disorder. Now I want to know, How is the life of a divorced man in India?@RC_Mayanka
Popular opinionWhy does divorce/separation affect some women’s self-esteem and confidence? @RC_Mayanka
Popular opinionmy neighbours daughter got caught in a live in relationship and her mother has been crying like someone died... is it wrong to be in a live in?
Popular opinionI have been in live-in for few months now and we are engaged also. Now I feel he is not the one for me since he is very dominating. I can't live my life on anyone else terms. I want to move out but the problem is we are engaged also and my family won't support me. please tell me How to end an engagement when you live together?
Trending creators for you
See AllHello, I’m Hema Mishra, a dedicated Counsellor with a Master's in Psychology and over a year of professional experience. My practice is grounded in empathy and understanding, providing a safe, non-judgmental space where you can openly explore your thoughts, emotions, and challenges. I specialize in helping individuals manage stress, anxiety, and personal growth, offering personalized guidance to foster mental and emotional well-being. Together, we’ll work to unlock your potential and create meaningful, lasting change in your life. I’m here to support you on your journey to wellness.more
"A bird's eye view 🦅 is different than a worm's eye view 🐛 and both of them are equally important."Debolina Mondal is a psychologist with a 3 years of intense work experience in the field of psychology in both clinical and non-clinical settings. She provides psychological counseling to the individuals and as well as educate individuals on mental health from different professional background. She simplifies the key topics on how to improve one's mental health in a simple way, so that they can assess themselves primarily if required. She is also a body language expert and a wonderful dream analyst. Her dream analysis is mostly in the Jungian method. She is also a Graphologist- a projective technique which analyse am individual's personality through handwritten sample. She is also queer sensitive 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 in her practise and believes in gender sensitivity and inclusivity more
Dr. Himadri Roy is a mental health professional practicing for more than 3 years and have helped 700+ people with her expertise in Medicine and Psychology. Healing becomes holistic when she joins you in your journey. more
i am a tarot and numerology coach since five years..i am happy to heal others more
Hello Everyone! I am Tarot Naina and this is my community. Welcome to the realm of tarot, where ancient wisdom meets intuition and guidance. With a deck of cards steeped in symbolism and mystique, we'll embark on a journey of exploration and insight together.Whether you're seeking clarity on love, relationships, career, or personal growth, tarot offers a mirror to reflect your current situation, highlighting opportunities, obstacles, and the potential paths ahead. As your tarot reader, I'll help you decipher the cards' secrets, tapping into their timeless wisdom and guidance.So, take a deep breath, shuffle the cards, and let's dive into the mystical world of tarot. What questions do you have for the universe today?"Join my live session for daily guidance and in depth readings.more
Trending communities for you
See All936
53"Women do not need to be polite to someone who is making them feel uncomfortable. You know, what I mean right?"In India, it is seen that women are not much aware of their rights and that continues to remain recessive in society. Only an aware person can well discern between just and unjust and this community would surely help you become just.more
45884WOW is a community for women only Our vision in a nutshell is a socialize and help each other in all possible ways. Wow believes in helping women, who wish to start new or grow existing business and help them to find their happiness circle because we believe if a women is happy then only the family will be happy and world will become a happier place to live. We organise some social drives also for underprivileged people and women of society. We do some event also for our community women related to different festivals or ocassion and you can join those events by connecting with us. you can join us by using the link Stay Happy Stay Safe Stay ConnectedSuruchi MalhotraDirector at Srijan Legal Solutions Pvt LtdFounder of WOW-World Of WomenEmail - surruchii@gmail.comContact - 999-363-9454*WOW Insta link:* https://instagram.com/wowpride?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=*Wow FB link*https://www.facebook.com/groups/5538839599522208/?ref=sharemore
425156हक की लड़ाई तभी लड़ी जा सकती है जब आप अपने हक जानती हो। इस कंमुनिटी के साथ हम एक दूसरे की मदद कर सकेंगे, इंफोर्मेशन शेयर कर सकेंगे बेटर इंफोर्मेड बन सकेंगे।more
Domestic violence is the top most crime committed against a woman in India The lack of Awareness amongst women, is a important reason for being a Victim of DVHandholding & spreading Awareness about DV is an important objective of this community We will help you recognise the red flags & help you understand your Rights I am Adv Rachana Shukla Be a warrior Not a Victimmore
New legislations and precedents everyday. Let me help you understand them better. more
773People who are helpful for social cause for legal matter personally and professionaly and can be helpful for society more
If you’re a domestic violence victim in India, this community will help you to empower yourself against domestic violence in India more