Me and my partner (42) have been together for 15 years. Lately I have been noticing that he looks at young women we haven't had sex in 6 years what can I do now? @Aartichawla

by AskAarti on Jul 12, 2023

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Kavya_r asked 249 days ago

Me and my partner (42) have been together for 15 years. Lately I have been noticing that he looks at young women we haven't had sex in 6 years what can I do now? @Aartichawla

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I totally understand your situation. its tough. you see the psychology and psychology of men n women are very different. And physical attraction is an important part of a relationship to keep it intact. how about exploring a little bit about the reason why you haven't had sex for last many years. maybe it will give you an insight as to are you both into each other and how you can improve the intimacy. also don't hesitate to discuss it with your partner on the reason and possible solution to it. Remember, communication is the key.

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