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my husband is a drug addict, he drinks aLot, use to take brown sugar also. due` to this there are a lot of problems. i have a 3 year old child. nowadays we are fighting, he is always drunk. what should I do

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where ur from

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Hey its important you stay safe and keep your child safe, you can search for local NGOs and rehabilitation that can assist you with this, there are many women based organisations giving employment to women, try being financial independent while also seeking help with some trusted legal advisor and you staying safe is utmost priority

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و أنتم؟
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الاكلة الرسمية بعد العيد
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