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Hi! Sexual thoughts are actually very normal. Everyone gets it and it’s absolutely natural and healthy. Controlling sexual urges or desires is completely dependent on context. Does it regularly impact your daily life priorities? If you are unable to sleep, eat or work for many weeks or months due to these thoughts, then it can actually be an issue! In that case, make sure you see a therapist. There’s a technique called as urge surfing. Look it up! If it’s not getting between your other life aspects, then it’s actually very normal!

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Why do you want to control sex? Do your partner is not available/ incapable/ you have lost interest in him? Please confirm the reason, treatment will be accordingly. Many times we get such thoughts and our partner couldn't fulfill it, so we think like that. Then the reason has to be treated. Sometimes actually we got excess thoughts because we couldn't get sufficient from our partner. Continuous suppression of urge can inversely cause such effect and sometimes one can lose control and choose infidelity also. You thought that may be there could be medicines to control sex , but actually it's not exactly like that. You have to work on yourself, try to engage yourself in other hobbies or work so slowly such emotions can get reduced. in case you failed to do so, then you have to consult a Sexologist for its treatment.

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Why do you want to control sex? Do your partner is not available/ incapable/ you have lost interest in him? Please confirm the reason, treatment will be accordingly. Many times we get such thoughts and our partner couldn't fulfill it, so we think like that. Then the reason has to be treated. Sometimes actually we got excess thoughts because we couldn't get sufficient from our partner. Continuous suppression of urge can inversely cause such effect and sometimes one can lose control and choose infidelity also. You thought that may be there could be medicines to control sex , but actually it's not exactly like that. You have to work on yourself, try to engage yourself in other hobbies or work so slowly such emotions can get reduced. in case you failed to do so, then you have to consult a Sexologist for its treatment.

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