My partner and I've been lately very close and we really wanna try to the backdoor of intimacy, you know what I mean but I'm very scared too. Thinking about the discomfort so I researched and found that using lubricants and moisturizers would help in that. I just wanted to confirm that if they have any side effects or any other impact on my health. ?? And also how should I choose what products to choose. @dockalpana

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AshMegha asked 386 days ago

My partner and I've been lately very close and we really wanna try to the backdoor of intimacy, you know what I mean but I'm very scared too. Thinking about the discomfort so I researched and found that using lubricants and moisturizers would help in that. I just wanted to confirm that if they have any side effects or any other impact on my health. ?? And also how should I choose what products to choose. @dockalpana

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・answered 380 days ago

Only use of lubrication is not sufficient when you think about rear entry. It's a delicate and thin lined part, so very often gets hurt. So proper communication with your partner and being relax for it is first and foremost important. Also profound foreplay, stretching of it beforehand is also mandatory. There are certain positions that helps you be easy while entering are mentioned in my post. Just go through it. Wish you best of luck dear 👍 Hey! Here’s a pos where you can found your answer. https://app.coto.world/post/share/drkalps/b25087c6-2aa2-4a1f-8ff4-73894bb003f2

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・answered 385 days ago

Hi there, I hope you are well. Lubricants are safe to use, it is ideally water or silicon based. You need little quantity, and there are various brands in the market which have massage lubs, numbing lubs, etc.....you will need a lube with a numbing effect for backdoor intimacy. However , opt for it only if you feel comfortable and not otherwise. @Sexologist_DrKalps can guide you even better on this :)

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viji_23

・answered 328 days ago

lubricants are sometime may work. but important thing is comfort of both partners. you can massage with oil slowly it will help. but most important is trust on male partner. he should be very understanding and loveble person

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vernika88

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hi you can use lilyconazole it is available spray and gel before doing sex you can rub or spray it after few minutes it will numb then you can take it whole you will not feel pain and doing well

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