by DrNikita_DSexologist on Nov 10, 2022
1582 members
1476 posts
We are the sex positive doctors and experts in a safe non judgmental zone – spilling the tea on female pleasure, sexual wellness, and all things hush-hush. Whether you're just curious or a pro wanting to school others, our community is the safe spot for learning, sharing, and embracing your Sassiest self with SASSIEST- India's first doctor backed sexual wellness & pleasure brand for Women & LGBTQIA+ www.sassiesthealthcare.in
Hallo Everyone.. I am Enna.. My Bf is too much horny. Everyday he is doing sex. and i love this bcz he is trying different type of sex but not horny. Always romantic sex. but i am tired and in night I am trying to tell him don't do but his romantic moment always stop me. please suggest me what I will do.. sometimes I am thinking to share my bf with my other girls friend bcz sometimes I am feeling tired.
5
2
1
Answer
278d
・answered 278 days ago
Hi Enna, Thankyou for sharing your concern. It's important for both of you to understand that enthusiastic consent for all sexual activities is the basics of a healthy sex life. Neither partner should feel pressurized to do this. If it is the 'romantic sex' that's become monotonous, i.e you are not turned on by it, you can have a conversation about experimenting with toys, fantasies, role playing and kinks. Maybe some changes in the routine will increase your libido (desire to have sex). If it's the frequency that troubling you, please talk to your partner and help him understand that it's not something you are enjoying, but rather are feeling pressurized into giving in because you don't want to ruin the moment. Have an honest, non-confrontational conversation and hear his thoughts. Maybe your partner feels he needs to 'convince' you to get in the mood. Tell him how it's affecting you.
1
1
Comment
262d
・answered 262 days ago
It's important to have open communication with him. Doing sex daily is not bothering you, it's the way he want is. But you should tell him this by your own mouth dear. In any intimate relationship, you should consider the other partner's consent, preferences & requirements too. Otherwise in long run, you will loose interest in sex and also in your partner. Also ask him is their any specific reason? Any sexual problem he have? So he is doing only romance and don't help you reach arousal/orgasm? After he set you on fire, but doesn't do penetrative sex, it irritates you so much that gradually decreases your libido. Also Try to convince your partner to indulge in his hobbies & work to reduce his feelings. There are certain medical conditions like menia, schizophrenia or even in case of some brain tumors also abnormal increase in libido is seen. So also check for such possibilities. Go to a Sexologist with him and they can help you by counseling & or to some extent by giving medicines
1
Comment
278d
275d
224d
・answered 224 days ago
Hi there! Hope you are doing well. As a therapist, I’d like to let you know that consent matters. Just because he is expressing sex in a romantic way, doesn’t mean you should always be pressurised to do it. Sex is fun only if there’s consent and mood from all parties. Have an open and assertive communication. Tell him that you feel “pressurised”, rather than “convinced”: there’s a difference between the two. If the sex is getting monotonous, you can also try experimenting with toys and positions. Just make sure you are being safe. Take care 🩵
0
Comment
Load more
Trending Creators
Networking
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
N
Eating Disorders
S
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
S
Eating Disorders
Eating Disorders
Load more
Trending Communities
Intimacy Issues
M
Self-pleasure
Contraception
Intimacy Issues
BF
Intimacy Issues
SP
Sexual Orientation
Sexual Orientation
Sexual Orientation
T
Contraception
HF
Sexual Orientation
Load more
More Questions Like This
Popular opinionis it okay to think about incest?
Top discussionJb raat ko m sote hu tb just sone k bad mujhe esa feel hota h jse kise ne dba liya h mujhe or fir meri body me sensation hone lgta h or m jag jate hu fir mujhe nind nhi aati . please meri problem solv kr dejiye
Top discussionWhat factors determine an individual's sexual orientation and can it evolve over time?ufhchchxhc
Popular opinionhello, i am a virgin and as usual i am also afraid for my first time, i dont have any partner right now but one of my friend is ready for physical intimitation, should i go for it, i want it and i dont also because i am confused and somewhere i feel that i should do it with my love only which i dont have right now, what should i do and what things need to be worried about for my first time and what is the good age to do it, can anyone suggest.
Popular opinionIs oral sex possible during periods?? My boyfriend wants to try it out
Popular opinionI'm (happily!) sexually active with my boyfriend, and let's just say oral sex is a pretty regular part of our routine. Recently, I came across something about dental dams and... honestly, I wasn't sure if they were just for specific situations or if it's something we should be using every single time. I know they can help prevent the spread of STIs, which is obviously important. But is it overkill to use one every time? Do they, like, decrease the pleasure for him? Please help thanks
Popular opinionIn a lesbian relationship we tend to run of things to have fun with. Are there any particular pleasure toys that me and my girlfriend can use as we belong to the same gender. We are new into exploring our sex lives together, and want to get more pleasure?
Popular opinionhi I m 39 years old.. n newly married.. doesn't feel peaceful from inside... feel like what I m doing it.. is this type of feeling will always be there ..
Popular opinionWhat factors contribute to an individual's sexual orientation and how does society influence it? yfyfyv
Popular opinionI had a one time sex in the bathroom of a club with a guy I had no idea about.We were both drunk and I don’t remember whether we had used contraceptives. How do I find out about it?
Trending creators for you
See All"A bird's eye view 🦅 is different than a worm's eye view 🐛 and both of them are equally important."Ms. Debolina Mondal is a psychologist with a 3 years of intense work experience in the field of psychology in both clinical and non-clinical settings. She provides psychological counseling to the individuals and as well as educate individuals on mental health from different professional background. She simplifies the key topics on how to improve one's mental health in a simple way, so that they can assess themselves primarily if required. She is also a body language expert and a wonderful dream analyst. Her dream analysis is mostly in the Jungian method. She is also a Graphologist- a projective technique which analyse am individual's personality through handwritten sample. She is also queer sensitive 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 in her practise and believes in gender sensitivity and inclusivity Her live session timings are: 8:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m. & 11:00 p.m. to 1:00 a.m., from Thursday to Tuesday more
I'm Bhavna from Mumbai, India, certified Personal Development Coach, graduated through an ICF accredited school of coach training. I'm often asked — What is Life Coaching? Life Coaching is an ongoing partnership between the client and the coach. It helps the client achieve fulfilling results both in their personal and professional lives. As a personal development coach, my objective is to help you get from where you are to where you want to be in life. And how do I do that? By helping you break the barriers you have imposed on yourself. I'm super grateful that I can share my learnings as a Life Coach to help you get to the heart of your needs and desires, while you identify and achieve your personal and professional goals with increased accountability, commitment and satisfaction. Looking forward to being your ally and building a life of POSSIBILITIES!!! +91more
SM
Step into the realm of transformation and insight with Soulful Phoenix, a gifted psychic tarot reader and guide. Through the ancient art of tarot, I channel intuitive wisdom to illuminate your path, offering clarity, healing, and empowerment. Each reading is a sacred space to explore your soul's journey, awaken your inner strength, and embrace the magic of self-discovery. Let’s rise together, like the phoenix, from uncertainty to purpose.😇more
Hi myself Aparna, I read oracles and Tarot intuitively. My life's purpose is to Open Hearts. more
Trending communities for you
See All3.3k
241Now a days relationships are disturbed so much due to Sexual problems. Myself Dr Kalpana Erande working as a Sexologist for Females and Infertility specialist. We at Dr Erande's Clinic in Mumbai and Pune help couples to resolve there sexual problems, to be happy and more Fertile. Doing sex is not a work, its one of our daily needs. It not only fulfill your desire, but also keep your hormones active so that you don't need to face fertility issues. So do enjoy sex regularly......for good fertility.Also Remember almost Half of population of world is having Vagina and Clitoris, but how many of them know about orgasm?I will try to introduce you all to this untouched part of your sexual self. Be part of this journey and become Rambha -Urvashi of your own life.more
M
236Mental Health Consultant supports individuals and groups by offering guidance on emotional well-being and mental health. As a fresher, they may assist in creating mental health programs and providing basic counseling under supervision. Their role is to help people manage stress, improve mental wellness, and connect them with resources for further support. They work closely with experienced professionals to learn and grow in the field, focusing on promoting healthy mindsets and emotional balance.more
1.4k419We are the sex positive doctors and experts in a safe non judgmental zone – spilling the tea on female pleasure, sexual wellness, and all things hush-hush. Whether you're just curious or a pro wanting to school others, our community is the safe spot for learning, sharing, and embracing your Sassiest self with SASSIEST- India's first doctor backed sexual wellness & pleasure brand for Women & LGBTQIA+ www.sassiesthealthcare.inmore
459271यहाँ हम प्यार, परिवार और समाज से जुड़ी बातें करेंगे, समझेंगे। प्यार से जुड़े stereotypes तोड़ेगे और मिलकर एक सतरंगी आसमान देखेंगे:)यह कम्युनिटी lgbtqia समुदाय के लिए एक सेफ जगह है।more
SP
Join for any sexual problems help you need here provide all sexual problems help more
here all the Community Member can share if they have any problem related to their SEX life. we can solve together by sharing the Problem. more
211327Sometimes conversations get awkward if we talk about sex,but it wont happen here!💗 Lets talk openly and discuss all matters related to sex in a safe and comfortable environment, free from any awkwardness or judgment,in this community!🎀more
T
19125we all are going to help each other openly about the various toys n experience. so it will be easy to find out our pleasure point ☺️😉😜more