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by Pallavi Barnwal on Dec 14, 2022

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Welcome to Yoniverse! I have created this community to help women from all walks of life love their uniquely beautiful bodies, have epic sex, and feel liberated and unashamed. I intend to make talking about sex and pleasure as easy as talking about what you’re going to have for dinner tonight, and experiencing pleasure as natural as breathing. Come join us in our journey, and get the tools to have the sex, love, and relationship that you deserve and desire.

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The Intimate Dilemma: An Emotional Rollercoaster of Crying After Orgasm🥲 Have you ever experienced a wave of conflicting emotions after reaching peak pleasure during an orgasm? The juxtaposition of euphoria followed by an unexpected bout of tears can leave many individuals feeling confused and vulnerable. In this post, we delve into the phenomenon of crying after orgasm, also called as post-coital tristesse (PCT) or colloquially termed ‘crymaxing’ Statistics 📊 The experience of crying after orgasm is more common than you might think. According to statistics, at least 45% of women have experienced crying after sex once in their lifetime Causes😢 * It’s a complex interplay of emotions that arises from the intense physical and emotional release that accompanies climax. * Physical factors like pain, vaginismus, lack of lubrication or any physical discomfort could cause one to cry * Psychological reasons like having underlying depression, anxiety, battling with shame or guilt and relationship issues could also cause one to shed tears post orgasm * Hormones like oxytocin and dopamine reach their peak during orgasm but drastically crash right after, which causes one to burst into tears as well * Stored trauma in the body from previous abuse or distress can also be released through orgasm and can be cathartic for some people too. This could also indicate buried or repressed feelings that need to be brought to the surface and worked through How to Manage😅 • Navigate post-orgasm tears with self-compassion, reflection, and open communication. Remember this is a common experience and nothing to feel ashamed about •Identify triggers and express your needs to your partner. Engage in supportive aftercare to regulate your emotions •Seek professional help from a sex therapist if it starts interfering with your sex life or relationship No matter what you may need to process or work through, give yourself compassion because you deserve to have sex and satisfying sex!❤️✨

The Intimate Dilemma: An Emotional Rollercoaster of Crying After Orgasm🥲

Have you ever experienced a wave of conflicting emotions after reaching peak pleasure during an orgasm? The juxtaposition of euphoria followed by an unexpected bout of tears can leave many individuals feeling confused and vulnerable. In this post, we delve into the phenomenon of crying after orgasm, also called as post-coital tristesse (PCT) or colloquially termed ‘crymaxing’

Statistics 📊
The experience of crying after orgasm is more common than you might think.  According to statistics, at least 45% of women have experienced crying after sex once in their lifetime

Causes😢
* It’s a complex interplay of emotions that arises from the intense physical and emotional release that accompanies climax.
* Physical factors like pain, vaginismus, lack of lubrication or any physical discomfort could cause one to cry
* Psychological reasons like having underlying depression, anxiety, battling with shame or guilt and relationship issues could also cause one to shed tears post orgasm
* Hormones like oxytocin and dopamine reach their peak during orgasm but drastically crash right after, which causes one to burst into tears as well
* Stored trauma in the body from previous abuse or distress can also be released through orgasm and can be cathartic for some people too. This could also indicate buried or repressed feelings that need to be brought to the surface and worked through

How to Manage😅
• Navigate post-orgasm tears with self-compassion, reflection, and open communication. Remember this is a common experience and nothing to feel ashamed about
•Identify triggers and express your needs to your partner. Engage in supportive aftercare to regulate your emotions
•Seek professional help from a sex therapist if it starts interfering with your sex life or relationship

No matter what you may need to process or work through, give yourself compassion because you deserve to have sex and satisfying sex!❤️✨
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