How can you avoid the dirty politics that go on around office especially when you're not interested at all and an introverted personality as well?

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nanc asked 576 days ago

How can you avoid the dirty politics that go on around office especially when you're not interested at all and an introverted personality as well?

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NazneenBatliwalla

・answered 576 days ago

Don’t navigate- just be quiet observer- be careful of what u say and what you indulge in wrt the gossip and politics. Kaam se kaam rakho and if at all you’re dragged, pull in an innocent cry of war… thodi acting kar lena… basically keep as away as u can- make people feel ur a spoilsport- that will work in ur favour only 😉

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nanc

・answered 576 days ago

Thank you for your insight.

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