by SwastiGenztherapist on Oct 12, 2022
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how do I handle the guilt of not wanting to be a mother and having kids of my own??? In this society where everyone expects women to be a mother
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Support・answered 25 days ago
Try knowing your reasons , discuss with more woman who decided on this decision and try having open communication with your husband/co parent, your willingness is top most priority
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Baking・answered 23 days ago
Hi there, I hope you are well. -Wanting to have kids or not wanting to have any is a personal choice and decision :) - You can have several reasons to not have kids. - However, I'd suggest you to sit down and have a conversation with yourself and your partner over the same. - Does he have similar views as well ? or he wants kids ? - Try to come to a conclusion based on the same. - Let it be a joint/mutual decision. - Talk to your friends or individuals you've taken a similar decision. - The society will expect you to do too many things, however, not everything can be considered as important as they may feel it is. - Take a sound decision, and stick by the same, sometimes we may change our decision/decisions because we feel the need to do so. - However, there's no pressure at all! - If you want to live your life in a certain manner, then, go ahead ✨✨ - All the best.
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Rituals & Practices・answered 12 days ago
Hi. It’s totally normal to not want kids. It’s a personal choice and that’s completely okay. Try talking to people who have made a similar decision, if is said that if you aren’t fitting in, then choose people who don’t fit in as well and then you can not fit it together! 😃 Also, have a conversation about this with your partner.
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