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Is sex painful?? I want to try it out but I am scared as many women say that they feel immense pain during the first time.

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Sexologist_DrKalps

Eating Disordersanswered 220 days ago

Those who have told you that it will pain a lot, have they stopped doing sex because of the pain? I know the answer is no, they are enjoying it. Because sex is not painful, rather it's way more pleasurable if you do it properly. Don't panic! Because of this you will afraid of penetration and will hold your vaginal muscles so tight that penetration will be either so much painful or impossible. Instead if you just go with flow, let yourself enjoy the moment, your emotions will increase the blood flow to genitals causing lubrication and dialatation of vaginal opening also. Just enjoy your emotions and everything will go smoothly. More intense emotions you have, more comfortable the sex will be. Just don't stop them coming. Best of luck dear 👍

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answered 219 days ago

It is not painful but pleasurable. There's nothing to be scared about. Your vagina secretes the fluid for lubrication for converting the pain into a great pleasurable experience for you.

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No baby girl! Instead of being scared for your first time, try and make it special with a great amount of love and comfortability. ❤️🥰

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Hi! Sex is not necessarily painful. For some people first time sex may be because of hymen breaking, lack of lubrication, anxiety or nervousness about how it’ll go, etc. but don’t worry! It will be good as long as you let go and enter the process with a lot of communication and a blank slate. Make sure you and your partner explore everything together, first time sex can be messy but that’s normal. Let yourself feel all emotions and give it time and patience. The more you do it, the better it will get 🩵

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