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My partner doesn't want to use Condom. We are not ready for kids and birth control makes me nauseous. I tried to make him understand but he is not ready to listen. How to convince him to use Condoms? @Sexologist_DrKalps

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Are your periods regular? If yes, then download any ovulation monitoring app. It will guide you about unsafe period. Unsafe period means period in which possibility of pregnancy is more. It will be mostly from 10 -20 th day of cycles. Tell him to use condom or avoid sex during these days. If your partner have full control on ejaculation, then you can try for pull out method. He might not be ready to use, but you have to force him to use condom. Because if pregnancy happens, then you will have to abort the pregnancy. If you don't want to suffer, make him use it atleast during unsafe period

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If you don't want kids then you will have to use condoms.

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Also you can show him movie of Rakul Prit Chhatriwali. It might help

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