Recently a friend of mine came out of the closet and she is too confused about her new identity. Although she is happy that she accepted herself this early but still. Yesterday she asked me about her health care. As in now she is a bit how should she take care of her sexual wellness. Is there something specific to be done. ?? @dockalpana Can you help with this ??

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AshMegha asked 408 days ago

Recently a friend of mine came out of the closet and she is too confused about her new identity. Although she is happy that she accepted herself this early but still. Yesterday she asked me about her health care. As in now she is a bit how should she take care of her sexual wellness. Is there something specific to be done. ?? @dockalpana Can you help with this ??

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If she feel that she’ll be safe and accepted coming out to everyone, that’s awesome! If she is not, she might want to start by coming out where it’s safest: whether that’s amongst your family members or friends. she may find it helpful to start with one trusted person. Prepare for questions and potential disbelief. Our society is still not that open. Maybe she feel uncomfortable for some days. Even well-intended and open-minded people might need time to accept it. But eventually they will accept it. Lean on your chosen community and surround yourself with a support system. When you are comfortable in your community, you are free to make your decision about how you want to be? whom you want to date?etc. It’s an ongoing, never-ending process. But if you believe in yourself, everything will be fine with time

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hello, i am a virgin and as usual i am also afraid for my first time, i dont have any partner right now but one of my friend is ready for physical intimitation, should i go for it, i want it and i dont also because i am confused and somewhere i feel that i should do it with my love only which i dont have right now, what should i do and what things need to be worried about for my first time and what is the good age to do it, can anyone suggest.

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Sex is not for trial and error dear. It's a emotional need of any teenage or above person. You have such feelings when you meet someone special, those feelings will automatically take you to next step whenever it should happen. And about your so called friend, you are not a baby doll to try by him. Those who tell any girl be physical or we will break up are just using them for their physical need. Once they use you, they will throw you out of their life and you will be shattered into pieces. it's not like that,If you do not hurry, you will miss the train! Maybe he is not your man! Keep searching from heart, in coming future you will definitely get your prince. Till then just keep yourself sustained. So Don't hurry!

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I'm (happily!) sexually active with my boyfriend, and let's just say oral sex is a pretty regular part of our routine. Recently, I came across something about dental dams and... honestly, I wasn't sure if they were just for specific situations or if it's something we should be using every single time. I know they can help prevent the spread of STIs, which is obviously important. But is it overkill to use one every time? Do they, like, decrease the pleasure for him? Please help thanks

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Are you also doing penetrative sex also? Because then you have to use condom also. If you and your partner are involved physically with each other only and don't have multiple partners, then get both of you tested once and make it clear that no one from you are having any STI. Then you can enjoy this as it is without dental dam. But if any one of you are with more than one partner, then it's better to use it every time. Also yearly testing can be done if you want to be sure always. It's always better to take precautions to avoid consequences. Though it's not liked by you, it's better for you.

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