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by Zanzanil Patel on Jun 22, 2023

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I'm 28. Am working and perfectly capable of doing almost anything in my power. Managing an entire department at an MNC so yeah that's pretty much about me.The point to this is I don't get why can't I prioritise myself over others. Why am I always guilty of doing that ??And how can I deal with it ?? @Zanzanil

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because society doesn't teach us yo prioritise ourselves. simple. start small. know what would prioritising yourself look like to you. small acts. and build it up from there. prioritise your desire to have that food, dress, walk, conversation, person, space etc

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