How can I honor my heritage and not hurt the feelings of my family while also embracing my modern lifestyle??

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marwa mohammed asked 201 days ago

How can I honor my heritage and not hurt the feelings of my family while also embracing my modern lifestyle??

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Hello anonymous, I'm Krisha Sanghvi, a counselling psychologist here to help. Balancing your heritage with a modern lifestyle can be challenging, but it's possible to honor both. Start by finding common ground where you can incorporate both traditional and modern elements into your life. This could mean celebrating cultural festivals while also pursuing contemporary hobbies or interests. Your feelings are important, and with understanding and communication, you can create a life that respects your heritage and embraces your modern lifestyle.

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