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I have noticed that I'm slowly loosing interest in my partner. Our chemistry has just fizzled out and I don't know what are the possible reasons. We were going good and everything was so beautiful. I'm not able to understand then why im loosing interest? @Sexologist_DrKalps

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Surrogacyanswered 105 days ago

Causes of low Libido can be psychological or relationship issues, some medical conditions like diabetes, hypothyroidism, chronic illness or if you are under certain medications like anti- depressant. Even if you are taking oc pills/ birth control pills for long-term, it can also reduce your desire. First find your reason. Work on self exploration and self pleasure. Tell your partner to do it for you. In return you can do certain things for him. Go on dating again. Don't underestimate importance of cuddling, hand holding etc. Sped some quality time with him daily and/weekly, reducing screen time. If medical reasons are there, consult your Sexologist for counseling and treatment. Remember, प्यार करने का तरिका पसंद ना आये तो तरीका बदलो| जिससे प्यार करते हो उसे मत बदलो!

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my friend... aap roj 5 star hotel mai lunch dinner krti h nhi na... waise love hota hai hr roj ek tarah nhi hota... usseh manage aur sambhal k chalna parta hai... pyaar sbko nhi milta hai aur pyaar krna easy hota hai usseh sambhal k rakhna sbke bass mai nhi hota... yeh toh aapko pyaar krne waqt hona chahiye.... aap usseh lekr khi jao aur baith kr problem btao dono pyaar s baat kro ho sakta h kuch baat p gossah aaye dono ko lakin problem ko short out krna sanah chahiye saath sb chor sakte h lakin nibhate koi ek hai

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